You are anxious to move ahead with an important project, but you are still in the thinking or talking stage. Lay your most impressive ideas on the table and try to narrow them down a little more before acting on them. It is hard to say that your recipe is complete when others keep adding things to the pot, Leo. It might be a good idea to set a deadline for entries so that you can eventually make a decision about what to proceed with and what to scrap.
You are, have been and can be quite a romantic powerhouse when you want to be, but you need to have a little more confidence in your instincts and your ways of doing things. Forget about the roses and the candy, the fancy restaurant and looking like a movie star. The most powerful romantic weapon that you have right now is sheer, unadulterated empathy. Put yourself in that other persons shoes and see the world through their eyes. The only aphrodisiac you need is the ability to listen.